Today, we join in mourning the passing of a significant figure – Lord Robert Fellowes, the cherished uncle of Prince Harry and Prince William. As we reflect, we honor the extraordinary legacy he leaves behind.
A Trusted Advisor and a Beacon of Support
During periods of turmoil and challenge, Lord Robert Fellowes was a steadfast pillar of support for the royal family. In addition to being married to Jane Fellowes, he served as the late Queen’s private secretary from 1990 to 1999.
In 1992, a year famously described by the Queen as her “annus horribilis,” Lord Robert was by her side, offering crucial guidance and unwavering strength. Whether dealing with the difficulties in Prince Charles’s marriage, Prince Andrew’s separation, or the catastrophic fire at Windsor Castle, Lord Robert remained a loyal and trusted advisor.
A Life of Service and Dedication
Born in 1941 at Sandringham House in Norfolk, Lord Robert Fellowes dedicated his life to public service. After completing his education at Eton College, he joined the Scots Guards in 1960 before transitioning to a career in banking. His strong sense of duty eventually led him to the Royal Household, where he started as an Assistant Private Secretary in 1977. Over time, he advanced to the roles of Deputy Private Secretary and then Private Secretary, a position he held with distinction for 20 years. In recognition of his unwavering commitment, Queen Elizabeth II honored Lord Robert with the Royal Household Long and Faithful Service Medal.
A Loving Husband and Devoted Father
Lord Robert Fellowes was not only a prominent figure within the royal family but also a devoted husband and father. His marriage to Lady Jane Fellowes at Westminster Abbey in 1978 was a joyous event. A memorable highlight of the occasion was Lady Jane’s sister, Diana Spencer—who would later become Princess Diana—serving as a bridesmaid.
Lord Robert and Lady Jane were blessed with three children: Eleanor Ruth Fellowes, Alexander Robert Fellowes, and Laura Jane Fellowes. Throughout life’s challenges and triumphs, their family remained a steadfast source of strength and support.
Fond Remembrances of Princess Diana
The untimely passing of Princess Diana in 1997 profoundly impacted the royal family, including Lord Robert Fellowes. In a conversation with The Telegraph, he warmly remembered her extraordinary character and shared his sympathy for the struggles she endured.
Lord Robert recognized that finding happiness can be difficult for those confronting such challenges, and his reflections were marked by deep compassion and understanding.
Honoring Lord Robert Fellowes’ Legacy
As we say goodbye to Lord Robert Fellowes, we reflect on the deep influence he had on the royal family and the wider community. His steadfast loyalty, kindness, and dedication to service will be cherished forever. He leaves behind a legacy of love and support that profoundly impacted those who knew him. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
